10 Weeks!

I can’t believe our precious little one is already 10 weeks old!!  They’ve been the longest and the shortest, toughest and most rewarding, weeks of my life.  Motherhood is beyond challenging, but there are no words to describe how special and awesome it is. 

God has blessed us tremendously during these weeks.  Lydia continues to thrive and delights us daily with her sweet self.  Not this she doesn’t have her share of fussy moments, but she also smiles, laughs, coos, gurgles, and otherwise “plays” with us during much of her awake time.  She’s really become aware of people and objects in the last few weeks and it’s incredible to see her reacting to sights and sounds (faces and cheerful voices, especially).  She kicks with excitement, she follows her toys with her eyes when we move them around, and she’s discovering her hands and ears as objects of amusement.  One of her favorite games is to lay on the ottoman (glider) and push against us to make herself go.  We layed her on the ottoman at Great Grandpa’s house one morning and she started pushing against Grandma’s hands.  It was really neat to watch her smiling and doing it again…so we have continued at home and she still loves it! 

Lydia is gaining strength and greater motor control everyday.  She’s holding her head up more and she’s trying to roll over from time to time.  We’re giving her tummy time and she’s working on lifting and holding her head and upper body up.  She has even slept through the night a few times, although the last time was two weeks ago.  We were in WV for Matt’s Grandma’s funeral and our schedule (while never all that strict) got REALLY out of whack.  We’ve spent the last week and a half getting back on track.  Last night was her best night since our return and I’m confidant we’ll be back to normal shortly 🙂

One of the hardest things so far has been to give up dairy.  At her two-month visit, the dr. felt her ongoing rashy stuff was likely related to milk allergies, i.e. dairy in my diet.  So I’m on dairy restriction for a couple of weeks, then we’ll start introducing dairy items slowly and see what happens.  If she does react, I’m hoping it’s only to major stuff like milk and cheese.  It would be nice to still have access to chocolate, butter, ranch dressing, etc.  And even if she remains sensitive to even small amounts, I discovered that Oreos have absolutely no dairy, so I have options!!  

 One other thing…  I thought I would share some things that I have found useful (and not so much) for Lydia and I.  Some things you only need so many of.  I received many, many towels and blankets from our dear friends and church family.  While I am very thankful, I must say that we returned many of these and we could/should have returned more.  You only have so much drawer space and even if you don’t do laundry that often, you just don’t need 10 towels or 15 blankets.  I have found cloth diapers to be very handy.  They make great burp cloths and have lots of other applications.  We also love Lydia’s “hippo” shower sprayer.  Our tub has a fixed shower head, so we have really enjoyed this easy on/off item…and she loves getting sprayed during bathtime!  Another item we are glad to have is a second car seat base.  It is so much easier to just “click” the seat into whichever vehicle and go…it was definitely worth the money.  There are plenty of other things we enjoy having for her, and some things that haven’t proved so useful, at least to date.  As time allows, I’ll share more.

God has been so good to us (although His goodness doesn’t change with less than ideal circumstances) and we have been incredibly blessed to be Lydia’s parents.   I am excited to see how He is going to grow Lydia and what He is going to do in the life of our family in the days and weeks ahead!!

How to Prevent Future VT-type attacks

I think the solution to prevent future VT-style murders in the future is more guns.  Anyone with a concealed carry permit should be allowed to exercise their rights on campus.  The faculty of all universities should be sent to training and carry concealed weapons.  How would this help?  Currently everyone knows schools are gun free zones.  This guy could know real fast if there were campus police in the building or not.  He then chained the doors to keep people out.  No police…no guns.  Let’s think about this a bit more:

The best case is that the criminal would know others have guns and decide not to go on the rampage.  Would he think twice if he knew that there was a chance that somewhere in that building someone had a gun and could take him down?  Possibly.

The worst case is that the criminal go ahead and decide to commit the crime.  But then when he chained the doors, there would have been people in the bulding with guns who could have taken him down after he started.  This would have prevented the large number of deaths.

Criminals are always going to get guns (if they can’t buy them from a gun store, they’ll have someone else go get it or buy it from the trunk of someone’s car).  Criminals are going to break the law (he carried the guns onto campus…a known gun free  zone.  THEN, he went on and murdered 34 people).  What better way to prevent things like this in the future?

[Update 08-14-2007 07:52:09] I have a new post with a link to a news story where a student is proposing the same thing.

[Update 2012-12-26 12:48:32] The link to the new post was wrong.  I updated it.

Virginia Tech Shooting

I know this was late; however, I didn’t get a chance to blog yesterday. 

We need to remember the faculty, staff, and students at Virginia Tech in prayer.  We need to pray that the Christians on campus would be able to witness to their unsaved friends.  We need to pray for the families of the students involved.

Be Alert for This

Watch out for “rolling protests” around the nation next week.  I was reading WorldNetDaily this morning before work and came across this article about truckers and rolling protests.

American truckers plan to circle the White House and state capitals in a “rolling blockade” to protest a federal government plan to allow Mexican long-haul rigs to operate throughout the U.S.

Drivers who participate in “Truck-Out” also are being asked to run their rigs at the minimum speed permitted by law.

The protest is scheduled for April 23-25 to coordinate with the “Hold Their Feet to the Fire” rally and radio talk show marathon in Washington planned by the Federation for American Immigration Reform. 

One reason I’m not an organ donor

This article in the LA Times about a guy declared dead before he was dead is one reason why I’m not an organ donor.

A man whose family agreed to donate his organs for transplant upon his death was wrongly declared brain-dead by two doctors at a Fresno hospital, records and interviews show.

Only after the man’s 26-year-old daughter and a nurse became suspicious was a third doctor, a neurosurgeon, brought in. He determined that John Foster, 47, was not brain-dead, a condition that would have cleared the way for his organs to be removed, records of the Feb. 21 incident show.

I don’t want Cyndi or Lydia to have to worry about something like that.   The article goes on to explain another reason I have for not being an organ donor:

Foster, an auto mechanic, collapsed Feb. 18 and was diagnosed with an inoperable Pontine bleed, a catastrophic hemorrhage in his brain stem with almost no hope of recovery.

Hours later, hospital personnel alerted the California Transplant Donor Network — the organ procurement group for much of Central and Northern California — that he was a potential candidate for organ donation. Such notification is routine.

After Sanchez agreed to donate, she said, she got calls “at least twice a day” from the organ group, saying: “We have to get the body parts in a certain time. Your dad can be a life-saver to someone else. How is he doing today? Did he go up or down?”

Cyndi or Lydia will have enough on their mind if something ever comes to this point.  I don’t want them to have to put up with people hounding them at a time like this. 

Microsoft…I’ve figured it out!

Those of you who know me well know I don’t really care for Microsoft.  But, I couldn’t really put a finger on it.  Until a few weeks ago that is.  I went to a MS SOA seminar in town.  Basically, this was Microsoft’s answer to Oracle’s Fusion technology stack I had seen at Oracle OpenWorld.  While watching the presentation, I figured it out:  Microsoft is just too full of itself. 

Imagine that one person in jr high you couldn’t stand because it was them this and them that…you have Microsoft.  Yes, they have cool technology, yes it does neat stuff, but in contrast with open free–as in freedom–software that uses standards everyone can live with, Microsoft saves its coolest most interoperable stuff for other Microsoft based apps.

Now, onto an aside: DotNetNuke (a cms based on .net).  What about the modules?  I recently went looking for a podcast module for Salem Baptist’s website.  The only modules were ones I had to pay for.  ARG!  I don’t want to pay for something only to find out it doesn’t do what I want.  

Contrast this with Joomla and the components and bots available for it. I recently went looking for a podcast module to play with on my site.  Right off the bat, I found several I could download, install, play with, and see if I like.  That’s it…nice and simple.

 While it isn’t Microsoft that makes the module designers choose what they did for their modules, I believe the “microsoftie” attitude shows through them.  Instead of writing code because they want to, they enjoy it, or they have a need for functionality then sharing it with others, they do it and want to “get theirs.”  Yes, in all fairness there are problems with the “free software movement” too:  if all software were free (as in freedom), we would not have world peace, the planets wouldn’t align, and everyone wouldn’t get along.

Remember Our Brothers and Sisters

I was surfing this morning and ended up at youtube.  I started at the persecution blog and this post about the thinking blogger award.  This led me to this post on the inspiration korner about the award (I was trying to find out who gives the award).  I then went to the main page of the inspiration korner blog where I saw a post about a video…the video below (that’s how I went to youtube…I had to watch the video).

{youtube}1gLUd-5xqWY{/youtube} 

Here are some quotes that really hit me from the video:

 I told them that [conversion to Islam] was not possible.  I am a Christian. — James (10 year old boy)

Help me Lord, I do not want to deny you — Rikka (teenage girl)

Hearing things like that from believers causes me to examine myself.  It also makes me think about my family.  Now that God has given Cyndi and I Lydia, I have three main prayer requests for her: 

  • Her salvation
  • That God would let Cyndi and I be ready to let her do whatever God calls her to do
  • That Lydia would have a strong faith and would be willing to give the same answers if ever faced with persecution

vomblogosphere150X100a.jpg

vomblogosphere150X100b.gif