Picture to Share

About a month ago (we got way behind uploading pictures), we had an awesome sunset in town.  Here are some pictures that I wanted to share with everyone.

ARG

This morning I was going to post about some really neat stuff at Thinkgeek (I thought of my dad, Wallace, Woody, Kevin, and Brian when I saw the stuff.  I’ll give you 2 gueses what it relates to.  🙂  ) so I came to the website to login.  What did I see?  Not my normal screen….nope, I saw this:

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 Arg! What’s the matter?!  I was worried something really happened to the site (no, I don’t have a backup I do now).  I had been logged into my hosting providers admin panel a few days ago and noticed I was over my db limit.  I wondered if they did any sort of checking, but everything had been working fine so I decided to leave it be.  Well, I guess they do check it because I had been denied write access to my database.  Here is what I saw in the usage stats:

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 Arg.  I was over and needed to fix it.  I figured it was the bsq_sitestats module I had installed because I had a bazillion stats stored.  But, I couldn’t just use the module to clean out the stuff because I couldn’t login.  Well, I’m offered phpmyadmin access to my database so I logged in there.  Sure enough, the stats module was eating up all of my space (plus some):

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Sure enough, the bsu_hit table was taking up my quota + some.  And another table was taking up another 24MB!  Wow!  How to get rid of the data?  My first thought was to just clean out stats for things like the googlebot, etc….  Well, I tried that, but couldn’t remember the syntax for the delete command.  I know, I could have looked it up, but…..

I wasn’t sure what would happen and how unreliable my stats would be if I just did that.  So, I decided to start from scratch.  I truncated the tables.  Truncate, for those who don’t know, is kinda like a delete…but kinda not.  It gets rid of the data only it is very fast (on Oracle, if I remember right you cannot rollback a truncate command…that is part of the reason.  On mysql, I’m not so sure).

So i truncate everything, go back to the admin page. Refresh it.  No change in the space I’m using.  ARG.  Try to refresh the website.  ARG.  Same error:

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ARG.  I call my hosting company and talk to a guy.  he has an American name, but he isn’t an American.  Probabaly Indian…but speaks english very well.  I explain the problem, he goes off and checks.  Tells me I need to wait 15-30 min for their systems to refresh.  But he’s more than happy to walk me through getting rid of data as the admin tool says I still have -50MB free.  Arg.  I try to explain the situation to him…he’s just following the script.  In the end, I tell him that I can’t delete anything more and I’ll wait.  So, I’m chekaming (чекам means I wait in Serbian.  This is my Englishized version of that word).  I finally check back and everything works.  YAY!

But take a look at the space usage after:

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I went from using > 150 MB to < 10.  Gee wizz.  The bsq_sitestats plugin sure is nice…but it uses space.  To be fair, I’ve never done any optimization or scrubbing of my stats (I’ll do that now) so I don’t want to misrepresent the app.  The stats are nice, but it eats up the space.

So, now you know the story of the error.  I’m sorry for everyone who had issues overnight.  You won’t get a seperate post about the thinkgeek stuff.  Follow the links on top.

TV

In this post, I talk about some of the bad things that are on TV here.  But, I wanted to point out that there are some not so bad things on TV too.  Just some times those things are not in the language you expect.  here is a clip from Sponge Bob that has been dubbed into Serbian.

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Walk

I went for a walk a few days ago.  I walked over the dam and up a footpath towards Ovcar and Kablar (Овчар или Овћар…незнам шта је тачно…и Каблар).  I walked a little ways and found this other footpath that veered off to the left towards the river.  I walked out it and kept walking…that is where I came across this table someone had made.  Here are two pictures.  First the table and second a panorama:

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4×4 Car

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These cars are all over the place here.  They are 4 wheel drive (at least they have a sticker on the car that says so).  They look like they could climb a tree just sitting there.  I’d like one.  They have about 1.5-2 feet of ground clearance too!

[Update 09-20-2008 08:19:28] These cars are brand name LADA and come from the former Soviet Union/Russia.  Here is the wikipedia article.  Here is a link to a lada club in Serbia.

[Update 09-20-2008 08:37:20] Here is a new article about Ladas with some neat videos in it.

Overseas Life

I haven’t written too awfuly (how do you spell that….awful + ly…awfuly…who knows.  If you know, leave me a comment) much about life overseas recently, so I decided today that I would write about something that is very prevalent…at least here in Serbia.  That is the dress (or lack there of).

I don’t really know how to explain this to people in the states.  People here wear clothes (no, we aren’t in the bush in Africa).  They wear clothes very similar to what people wear in the US.  It’s just different.  I can’t explain it.  Here are a few examples:

If you want some more examples, you can go here.  No, it isn’t like everyone runs around in their clubbin’ clothes all the time.  And it isn’t that they don’t wear clothes.  They are just…well…different (for some more on that, check out this article on close but not exactly).  No, I can’t really explain it.  Just know that it is different.  By the way, the girl on the bottom is wearing traditional Serbian Dress.  I haven’t seen anyone walking around in that.  I’d say it is kinda like German Leaderhosen.

Also porn is readily available.  Either in the many shops (that are on every street corner) has it just laid out with the other “normal” magazines, or the video store has it, or it is even on the TV after midnight.  It is simply amazing.  Not to mention the internet (which as we all know is a huge problem anywhere you are).

So, if you are living overseas (or thinking about it) something you may want to think about is how will you react when different  things are presented.  How will you react? As a Christian, how will you set yourself apart?

As someone living in the US, how can you support those living overseas?  How can you pray for them?

Oh, one of the easy steps you can take on your computer is to sign up for OpenDNS.  it is very easy to use and rather fool-proof.  it also works with multiple computers.  And it is free.  If you want some more information, drop me a line and I’ll let you know what I know.

Language Progress

 It’s easy to sit here and think you aren’t making any progress when it comes to language learning.  Sure, you know a little more than when you arrived…you have a better grasp on the culture and language…but can you really understand people and share with them!  I am so thankful that God has blessed me with 3 special opportunities this month.  We certainly have been able to talk to people at least a little and we really have come a long way, but these instances were so encouraging.  And I believe that as we trust God and spend more time here, He will give us more such opportunities. 

We know a sweet, older woman that we met through a Bible study when we were here 2 years ago.  She hosted the study a few weeks ago when some other people were out of town and it ended up that just Matt and another American guy were going, so Lydia and I went along, too.  She is so gracious and speaks clearly and slowly, so she is pretty easy to understand.  I was able to understand what she said and to speak to her relatively well.  I also was able to undertand a little of the text (1 Peter 1) in the cyrillic Bible we had.  But most precious was that God gave me the words to pray in Serbian (very shortly and simply) for our dear friend’s daughter who does not believe in Him.

 We have been trying to build relationships with our neighbors by baking cookies.  We’ll make a batch and try to visit one family each week.  A week or so ago, we tried to take cookies to 2 families (both of which weren’t home) before we went to the door of a sweet, older couple we met shortly after we got here.  They don’t speak any English, but they invited us in and we were able to visit with them in Serbian for almost 2 hours.  Lydia certainly helps as she provides entertainment and comic relief, but we were able to enjoy coffee and converse on a variety of subjects that evening.  And I even had the language to tell them that God is good and that He takes cares of us (in reference to Lydia being a happy, healthy baby).  It wasn’t much, but just knowing and being able to share those few words of praise to God was a huge victory!

Last Saturday, I had the opportunity to attend a ladies’ conference in another town.  I went with an American friend and our Bible study hostess.  While the day was overwhelming in terms of being immersed in Serbian for an entire day, it was also a blessing to spend time with fellow sisters in Christ.  Even if I couldn’t understand much, I could sing and pray.  Later in the day, there was a testimony time and I had the privilege to share in Serbian (however poorly) how God brought us here and how thankful I was to be able to spend time with other believers.  

In the grand scheme of things, these events may seem insignificant, but they were huge for me and I am so thankful that God (in His perfect timing!) sent these encouraging opportunities along just when He did.  He is so good!!   

Recnik image from green flamingo.
Cookie image from rachel.

Living Overseas, Budgets, and Cash-flow

 I thought I would write this post to be of help to others who are thinking of moving overseas or who have moved overseas.  Managing money is very different over here.

First off, you need to figure out how can spend money.  I don’t know about you, but in the US, we used our credit card for everything.  Go to the store, pay with plastic.  Go get gas, pay with plastic.  Go get McDonald’s, pay with plastic.  Get a pop from the pop machine, bum a buck from a coworker because you don’t have cash.  Here, we can’t use plastic as readily as we could in the US.  At some of the larger stores, we can (and do), but most of the time we cannot.  This means we need a way to get money.

Our company pays us into a US bank account.  When we use our plastic to pay for things, it comes right out of the account (it is actually a debit card).  But, how can we get cash?  Well, ATMs are all over the place here.  We can use our card just as an ATM to get cash.  Our bank absorbs the first 10 ATM charges (after that, we have to pay); however, we still have to pay Visa’s 1% exchange fee.

That’s something else to look for.  If you decide to go this route, where will you get the best exchange rate?  For us, it doesn’t matter alot for the amounts of money we are talking about.  If I were to get out 2 or 3 thousand dollars, I’d make sure to look.  But, I won’t be doing that so it doesn’t really matter.

But then, once you have your cash, how are you going to spend it?  How are you going to do your budget?  You do budget right?  If not, go make one of those up.  Here are some basic amounts from our budget:

Utilities:  $200/month (electric, water, mobile, phone, etc….)
Internet:  $30/month
Food:  $400/month (includes eating out) 
Supplies:  $100 (diapers, wipes, cleaning supplies, etc….)

As always, YMMV (your mileage may vary).  You’ll have to work out some amounts for yourself.  But, once you have it, how do you track it?  That question plagued us for about 2-3 months.  We think we have a handle on it and that is the main point of this post.

We use MS Money (I know, I could–and should–use the free GNU Cash, but Cyndi is doing the computer side of this and is happy with money).  In the US, we just entered transactions as they happened, split them, and categorized them.  But here, we have 1 withdrawl every week or so…then we spend that cash.

Well, I set up a cash account in money.  When we get paid, the paycheck goes into the right account categorized like it needs to be.  When we withdraw money, we take it out of a generic Cash category.  We deposit the amount of the transaction into the cash account.  As we spend cash, we write that in a notebook we carry with us.  Every day, we write down what we spent.  Every week, we enter the amounts into the cash account in money.  We categorize them there.  We can then run the budget reports for several account (our checking, saving, and cash account) and see where we are across accounts (we transfer our extra utility money to savings every month to have for the winter).  That will let us see how we are doing. 

19 Months!!

I can’t believe how big she has grown!  Lydia is running and climbing and “talking” up a storm.  She has such a cute little way of standing on the balls of her feet and bouncing through the house at top speed.  Our brave girl has also conquered the couch and is fast on her way to getting onto the bed.  It’s only a matter of time before I catch her on a chair and on the table.  As for language, she has always been vocal and she continues to make crazy noises and gabber unintelligibly at random intervals…however, she is expanding her vocabulary daily!  She understands tons of things, both English and Serbian, but most of her words are English at this point.  Mama, Tata, nana (banana), cup, cracker, cheerios, yes, no, teeth, eyes, nose, puppy, cat, etc…   Some things are clearer than others, but she is able to say so many things and makes cute sounds, too.  She does this crazy grunt when you ask her what a pig says and does a pseudo howl when you ask her about dogs.  She has also mastered the vroom-vroom needed for playing with cars.  We’re working on baka (grandma) and deda (grandpa) and other simple Serbian words while continuing to encourage her English vocabulary 🙂  Ona je vrlo pametna, tako naucice brzo (she is very smart, so she will learn fast)!  Much faster than Mom and Dad!! 

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We have managed to get some cute pics and vids of her doing “Lydia” stuff.  Some of her favorite things are reading, eating, climbing, playing with/in cabinets and drawers, pulling stuff off of the table/counter/towel rod/drying rack, turning her cup upside down to shake water out and play with the newly formed puddle, finding Mommy or Daddy’s glass and dipping stuff in it…like keys or the remote, changing the channel, finding odd places to stick keys, and pulling laundry out of the basket and wearing it over her head while she wanders around making silly noises (playing “ghostie”).  She also likes to help me clean by running around with the dustpan or shoving the broom around.  And she hands me the pillows when I make the bed.  The trash can has been mastered, so she will happily throw things away, even when we don’t ask her to 🙂  She is such a happy thing, always ready to climb on (aka “waller”) you and she loves to sneak up behind you when you sit on the floor with your back to her.  She screws up her little eyes and holds her arms up in a posture of great excitement (she’s practically shaking with giddiniess) before she darts toward you and throws herself on you back.  And, of course, you simply must hold her hands and lean forward so she can get in a little flying practice.  She’s one crazy, super-sweet girl and God has blessed us tremendously by allowing us the privilege and challengeg of being her parents!!

Google Calendar, Thunderbird, and Lightning

Ok…I’m trying to figure out how to get my combo of google calendar, thunderbird, lightning, and provider for google calendar to work together like outlook.  I want to put a meeting on my calendar, invite others, have them sent an e-mail, accept/reject, etc…  And the other way around…I want them to be able to invite me and me receive an e-mail.

I remember finding an article about changing an option to allow this, but now I can’t find it anywhere.  it was in a file similar to firefox’s about:config page.  Any ideas? 

[Update 09-04-2008 10:57:20Found it in this page on the thunderbird site.  The options were calendar.google.enableattendees and calendar.google.sendeventnotifications.  I still need to test this out.  I’ll post an update when I do.